An impotent man – verdict

I am sharing an important issue as an eye opener for men and women

What to do in case a woman is infertile or a man is infertile [low motility?

Very often, Muslims themselves have created chaos and confusion in the society by mixing culture, traditions of their respective countries to Islam

They have encouraged men to divorce their wives or to seek another wife in case a woman could not conceive of a baby. Can you imagine the threat this causes upon the psychology of a woman, when you reject her, when you debase her, when she needs you and you take her as an object?

Isn’t Allah full of compassion, love and mercy for you? Has not the prophet [peace and blessings be upon you] showed you how to live respectfully and lovingly towards your wife?

“Well, have you considered the fact that you, as a man, you cannot have children and your wife nags you, hurts your feelings everyday and hates you or leaves you and goes to another man? Think about it a hundred times over before you criticize women”

 

Well, I will not be able to provide the whole man’s question: in brief he says that he tested his semen and it had no motality.

Answer from [http://www.islamweb.net/emainpage/index.php?page=showfatwa&Option=FatwaId&Id=143497]

Answer

All perfect praise be to Allaah, The Lord of the Worlds. I testify that there is none worthy of worship except Allaah, and that Muhammad  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allaah exalt his mention ) is His slave and Messenger.

It is not permissible for a wife to describe her husband with a description that displeases him in order to humiliate him and despise him even if this description is real. Indeed, the matter of having children or being sterile is predestined by Allaah and the people have nothing to do with it; Allaah Says (what means): {To Allaah belongs the dominion of the heavens and the earth; He creates what He wills. He gives to whom He wills female [children] and He gives to whom He wills males. Or He makes them [both] males and females, and He renders whom He wills barren. Indeed, He is Knowing and Competent.}[Quran 42:49-50]

Hence, such a treatment from a wife to her husband is contradictory to his rights on her and it is considered as disobedience and misconduct on her part towards him; so the husband has the right to discipline her according to the Sharee’ah as we clarified in Fataawa 85402 and 84120.
It should be noted that a wife should be patient with her husband and help him treat himself (medically) instead of criticizing him for him being infertile. For more benefit, please refer to Fatwa 88807.

We advise both the husband and wife to do whatever leads to the stability of the family and maintain the spirit of harmony and love between them as these are the most important objectives of marriage.

Allaah Says (what means): {And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquility in them; and He placed between you affection and mercy. Indeed in that are signs for a people who give thought.} [Quran 30:21]

Also, among the matters that help achieve this objective is that both spouses fulfill the rights of the other. For more benefit on the rights of the spouses towards each other, please refer to Fatwa 85308 and 83157.

Allaah Knows best”

Now the problem lies with a known hadith reported by Abu Daoud, and Muslims are taking a hadith ABOVE THE VERSES OF THE QURAN

Muslims should know that the Quran has full authority over a hadith

Muslims should not take a hadith above Allah’s words

Muslims should know how and in which context to use a hadith

Muslims should not take a recommendation as an act of Fard [obligatory act]

Muslims should not burden women unnecessarily

Muslims should not take it an offence if their wives, daughters cannot have children

Muslim women should not always think that if they do not have children, it is their responsibilities, it may be the husband’s semen do not have any motility

Whenever you  hear a hadith, confront it with the Quran. If it contradicts the Quran, then it is rejected. A hadith must also be taken in its right context

do not frustrate yourself, your family, your son and daughter unnecessarily.

Know that the prophet [peace be upon him] came to spread Tawheed, the unity of Allah and not to burden people

Allah knows best

These are the 70 major sins in Islam. You should know them in order to avoid these major sins

70 MAJOR SINS IN ISLAM
—– —– —– —– —– —–
01. Associating anything with Allah [shirk]
02. Murder
03. Practicing magic [sorcery
04. Not Praying
05. Not paying Zakat
06. Not fasting on a Day of Ramadan
without excuse
07. Not performing Hajj, while being
able to do so
08. Disrespect to parents
09. Abandoning relatives
10. Fornication and Adultery
11. Homosexuality (sodomy)
12. Interest (Riba)
13. Wrongfully consuming the property
of an orphan
14. Lying about Allah and His
Messenger
15. Running away from the battlefield
16. A leader deceiving his people and
being unjust to them
17. Pride and arrogance
18. Bearing false witness
19. Drinking Khamr (wine)
20. Gambling
21. Slandering chaste women
22. Stealing from the spoils of war
23. Stealing
24. Highway Robbery
25. Taking false oath
26. Oppression
27. Illegal gain
28. Consuming wealth acquired
unlawfully
29. Committing suicide
30. Frequent lying
31. Judging unjustly
32. Giving and Accepting bribes
33. Woman imitating man and man
imitating woman
34. Being cuckold
35. Marrying a divorced woman in
order to make her lawful for the
husband
36. Not protecting oneself from urine
37. Showing-off
38. Learning knowledge of the religion
for the sake of this world and
concealing that knowledge
39. Betrayal of trust
40. Recounting favours
41. Denying Allah’s Decree
42. Listening to people’s private
conversations / eavesdropping
43. Carrying tales
44. Cursing
45. Breaking contracts
46. Believing in fortune-tellers and
astrologers
47. A woman’s bad conduct towards
her husband
48. Making statues and pictures
49. Lamenting, wailing, tearing the
clothing, and doing other things of this
sort when an affliction befalls
50. Treating others unjustly
51. Overbearing conduct toward the
wife, the servant, the weak, and
animals
52. Offending one’s neighbour
53. Offending and abusing Muslims
54. Offending people and having an
arrogant attitude toward them
55. Trailing one’s garment in pride
56. Men wearing silk and gold
57. A slave running away from his
master
58. Slaughtering an animal which has
been dedicated to anyone other than
Allah
59. To knowingly ascribe one’s
paternity to a father other than one’s
own
60. Arguing and disputing violently
61. Withholding excess water
62. Giving short weight or measure
63. Feeling secure from Allah’s Plan
64. Offending Allah’s righteous friends
65. Not praying in congregation but
praying alone without an excuse
66. Persistently missing Friday Prayers
without any excuse
67. Usurping the rights of the heir
through bequests
68. Deceiving and plotting evil
69. Spying for the enemy of the
Muslims
70. Cursing or insulting any of the
Companions of Allah’s
Messenger (S.A.W)

Did you know this about Allah?

It is ALLAH Who puts restfulness into our body, NOT SLEEP.
It is ALLAH Who puts nourishment in our limbs, NOT FOOD.
It is ALLAH Who puts Energy into our living, NOT AIR.
It is ALLAH Who puts Cure into our aches and pains, NOT MEDICINE.
It is ALLAH Who puts Wisdom into our minds, NOT EDUCATION.
It is ALLAH Who puts honor into our reputation, NOT PEOPLE.
Even if we lead unseen lives, we need only ALLAH to have absolutely Everything !!

ALLAH IS THE KING OF UNIVERSE : “THE ONLY LORD TO WORSHIP”

♥ Oh My ALLAH, Forgive Our All Sins ♥
♥ Oh My ALLAH, Give Health To ill People ♥
♥ Oh My ALLAH, Pass us in the INTERVIEW ♥
♥ Oh My ALLAH, Give us PASSIVE result ♥
♥ Oh My ALLAH,Don’t broke our HOPES ♥
♥ Oh My ALLAH, Give Us Strength to Do Good Deeds ♥
♥ Oh My ALLAH, Save us From The Shadow of Evil/Shaitan ♥
♥ Oh My ALLAH, Help Every Muslims in Troubles ♥
♥ Oh My ALLAH,Give Every Muslim to Chance See Your House ♥
♥ Oh My ALLAH,Open The Doors Of Mercy For Us. (Ameen)♥♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥
Don’t depend too much on anyone in this world
because even your own shadow leaves you
when you are in darkness.”
Depend on Almighty “ALLAH” Alone.

 

 

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People are much preoccupied by the Mahdi, and they are not preoccupied with their own souls

“O mankind, fear your Lord. Indeed, the convulsion of the [final] Hour is a terrible thing.

On the Day you see it every nursing mother will be distracted from that [child] she was nursing, and every pregnant woman will abort her pregnancy, and you will see the people [appearing] intoxicated while they are not intoxicated; but the punishment of Allah is severe.

And of the people is he who disputes about Allah without knowledge and follows every rebellious devil.

It has been decreed for every devil that whoever turns to him – he will misguide him and will lead him to the punishment of the Blaze.”

Surat ul Hajj verses 1- 4

It is sure we are heading towards the End Times. time is a factor which moves ahead and never comes back.

So, it is a fact that time will fly quickly because the prophet of Islam, Muhammad [pbuh] has warned us against this.

We have also been warned against the false Messiah. So beware brothers and sisters, DO NOT GET CARRIED AWAY

Many people on the internet are sending links or publishing videos that they are the Mahdi or the soldiers of Mahdi.

They are giving glad tidings of what will happen during Al Mahdi’s time.

But you, as an individual, are you prepared to face your own death?

Do you know that when you die, no one will be able to save you from hell fire IF you do  not turn to Allah in repentance?

It is good to learn about the characteristics of Al Mahdi yet truth when it appears to us, will not be exactly how we interpret things.

No one knows exactly about how things will turn out to be.

People are talking about the Mahdi yet they make their sins visible to the whole world. These people are more concerned about actualities/news/information/ yet they neglect their own souls. Subhan Allah.

Dear brothers and sisters, do not be illusionned by this world, by its beauty, by the so-called beauty we see on the screen. How come people are talking about the Mahdi on television, on videos, with heavy make-ups and almost naked ? Is this the trend of the Mahdi? NO. Surely not.

Islam is the middle path. it accepts no extremism whether good or bad. It is the middle – the balanced path. We call our ummat – ummati wasit. So, people should not exagerate while talking about islam. They should not be too strict, stern …and they should not be too relaxed, laughing a lot…etc. A modern leader does not mean that he should go beyond the limits of the shariah law. No.

so beware. Do not take everything we see for granted. Establish a firm relationship with Allah. He Himself will guide you to the right path, if you ask Him for true guidance.

The washing of the ka’aba and around

 

We often forget those who do these noble jobs in order to allow muslims to perform umra and hajj