How to get rid of your homosexual inclination ? The best solution ever to your sufferings

July 10, 2012 at 9:02 pm (homosexuality, Reasons to succeed, what we should know)
Tags: against nature, homo, homosexuality is a sin. Islam condemns homosexuality, imitation of women, wrong understanding of islam

And [We had sent] Lot when he said to his people, “Do you commit such immorality as no one has preceded you with from among the worlds? (80) Indeed, you approach men with desire, instead of women. Rather, you are a transgressing people.” (81)

Our objective is not to condemn anyone. People are tested in many ways. some people are tested with this. Nobody is born homosexual because everyone is born with one gender. If a baby is born with two sexes, then it is called ‘dysfunction’. The parents should see a doctor to determine which sex is more dominant. The hermaphordite [this is how it is called] is a very rare case and has nothing to do with sexual desires and homosexuality.

Although the modern mind thinks that they can overrule Allah’s order, yet nature is a reality. What does it mean? it means that human beings are created either as male or female and when the body is ‘dysfunctioned’, you should find a solution. Instead of taking hormones to ‘change’ a he into a she or vice versa, why not take hormones to allow you to live in harmony with your gender?

Transgender people take hormones to help align their physical characteristics with their gender identity. Hormone therapy is a medication that contains hormones that are typically associated with the gender identity of the person taking them. For example, transgender women may take estrogen to produce physical changes in the body that are caused by female hormones during puberty. These changes are called secondary sex characteristics. 

Hormone therapy is supposed to ‘help transgender people feel more like themselves and less like the sex they were assigned at birth’. Read this sentence twice and reflect on its meaning. Assigned at birth by whom? By the creator? Do you think that the creator has made a mistake by creating a boy with a girl’s sex? or vice versa? Now, imagine if you do exactly the opposite. You are a girl and you follow a mental therapy to remain a girl and to feel good being a girl? And if you have some male traits or characteristics, you take some hormones to become more feminine?

• Don’t lose hope! Fear Allah (S.W.T), ask Him for help earnestly, never give up, and do something to get rid of even the idea of homosexuality. Try to avoid all of the circumstances that trigger your homosexual feelings:
• don’t stay alone with an attractive man
• always be in the company of several persons and not with one man only!!! [the third is the devil whispering to you]
• don’t get involved in deep / personal discussions with any person that you may think will trigger your homosexual feeling.
• Stay away from any other people who have similar feelings. 
• Don’t even think of such an idea. Do not watch movies that have homosexual  contents. They are quick to bring such feelings in you
• keep yourself busy in different useful things. The best is to attend the masjid [if you are a Muslim] and pray in congregation. Secondly, do sport activities that have positive effect on the body and mind
• stay away of anything that remind you of homosexuality. Do not read books, magazines etc that portray homosexuality as good
• Keep a POSITIVE thinking in your mind. ‘You can change it’ keep repeating that you can do it!!!

 –   Keep saying to yourself that you can do something about it. Seek advice with the right person 

• Don’t ever say I can’t. Remember with every step you are taking toward getting rid of this habit you are getting help and reward from Allah (S.W.T) and you are annoying the accursed shaytan.
• Also, you should focus on this worldly life. It will soon end. This life is nothing but a test: and homosexuality is your test…
• Each human being has got a test. We need to strive in order to gain victory over our it. So do not despair!!! Helps come from Allah alone. So turn to Him in prayer and sincere submission

What is the solution? 

Read the Quran with the intention of curing this thought. Use earphones. They are more powerful in tuning your brain and heart on La illaha illallah. Let the verses flow into your ears while you relax. You will soon give me the good news of your success. When fear of God [taqwa] and consciousness seize you, you automatically become a different person….This is the secret of success in sha Allah.

May Almighty Allah grant you success

Your sister Ammaara Uddeen 

 

DUA THAT CAN HELP TO DESTROY SUCH FEELINGS AND THOUGHTS

As you know supplications are many in the Quran and the Sunnah. You can use them for many purposes depending on your niyyat [intention]

 

• Always clarify your intention first before you start your dua or start reading the Quran

 

• For example, if you want to read surah An Nass [chapter 114] for your problem. it is recommended you do your wudhu [not obligatory]. You sit down in a proper place far from any distraction. You put the intention that you are asking help from Allah to get rid of this thought [YES, it is a thought, a waswass] through reading surah An Nass from the Rabb of Mankind, the King of Mankind, the Ilaa of Mankind. then you start reading several times and you ‘spit’ or blow on your two hands and you pass on your whole body. Do it regularly and very soon you will see the change in Sha Allah

 

• Read the dua of waswas [any dua concerning protection against shaytan/evil/jinn/sorcery]

 

• Sometimes, it is the djinn who enters the body; in this case a female djinni who possesses the body of the man. Listen to Manzil every single day. make it a must .

 

• Sometimes it is because of sihr. An enemy has sent a djinni to spread evil thought. Subhan Allah. Once the person has done ruqya, his mind is purified
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