Don’t poke your nose in things that do not concern you

Surely there is khayr [good] in it when the prophet [peace be upon him] says:

“Part of perfection of someone in Islam is LEAVING ALONE that which does not concern him…..”

The majority of people are like this: they like to interfere in people’s lives. They always think they know better. They judge people according to their own reality based on societal and cultural fact. Children grow up imitating their parents’ attitude and behaviour in the society without trying to change or improve certain bad habits that creep in the society. They often ask embarrassing questions to parents about their children, to wives about their husbands etc

Dear believers,

Before you ask a recently married couple when are u having a baby?

Before you ask a married couple why you are not having children after so many years?

Before you count how many years this couple has been married and still do not have children

Before you ask a divorced sister why do you get a divorce?

Before you ask an unmarried sister when are you getting married?

Before you ask a celibate why you did not marry?

If you say you are a believer , act like one !!!

If you say you are a believer, know that your duty is to respect the intimacy of others!!!

If you say you are a believer, know your limit,

Shut your mouth if you have nothing good to say,

Do not put people in situation where they feel they wish they had never met you,

There is wisdom in every thing even if you say you are a believer but you do not have the wisdom to see it

There is wisdom in differences of opinion even if you say you are a believer but you do not have the wisdom to accept the decision of others.

As a reflection:

 

 

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