Life is full of unexpected events, create your own happy space

Life is a play, play it!!!

simple pleasures

love time

love time2

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After you would have read it, I am sure your manner of looking at life will change

Let’s turn a new leaf

Sister Ammaara

Are women to blame in the society?

Before I get down to my point, please note that this is not an article about side-taking . It has been written as an eye-opener so that men and women start thinking widely and wisely about the consequences of their acts and thoughts.

Our society is highly divided and there are many gender problems that crop up in the society and women are the one that are always pinpointed for all problems which occur in the society. Men often have the tendency to blame women for fitnah and women often blame other women for fitnah and men are loyal to other men and support each other. Of course, this does not apply to each and everyone.

While this is not totally true and we should not blame others for our problem, it is important to understand that women have contributed a large amount for the society and for men’s welfare as well. Women are hardworking, responsible and caring for their families.

Our community has fallen into the trap of using using hadith over the verses of the Qur’an. While the Qur’an is Allah’s speech, it is error free and clear to understand. Allah promises in Surah Al Hijr verse 9 that He is the guardian and protector of the Quran. We cannot say the same thing for the number of hadiths which are classified as sahih, hasan, da’if and bat’il.

While the sunnah is important for us, we must make sure that hadith does not contradict the essence of the Quran. What does that mean? it means that the content of a hadith cannot oppose the teaching of the Qur’an and the sunnah.

If it does, it should be rejected because it will bring the community to chaos and confusion. If you act upon it, you will destroy yourself because it opposes the teaching of Allah and the prophet [peace be upon him] has been sent to explain the Qur’an and not to contradict its teaching or to oppose it. Please use your reasoning to understand this as Allah has given mankind a memory, a brain and a reasoning in order to analyse things, to differentiate between right and wrong. If you are not able to differentiate right from wrong, it means you are following your desires and you are following your sheikhs blindly.

Having said this, let us go back to our subject matter.

Gender discrimination is an injustice that we all want to get rid of. At least, this is what many are saying!!!

There is a thing called Women’s Day. If we want women to be recognised as such, then there is no need to do “women’s Day’ as we do “working day” …or “cancer day”

Women like men are God’s creatures. They have been created as human species and there is nothing about being inferior or superior. Women do not fall into animals’ species or djinn’s species

This should be well grounded in our mind. Difference in sex, does not mean superiority or inferiority. It just means that God wanted men and women to cohabit together in harmony by creating them different to each other so that they can complement each other through knowing each other.

Men and women are therefore ordered to live together in harmony, affection, love and security. It is the parents’ duty to raise up their children with such values!!!

Boys should learn to respect all women, not only their mother or their sister. Some even do not respect anyone!! and this is a tragedy for the family.

Learning to know the other sex is part of life and socialisation. Boys and girls learn to play with each other when they are small. They learn about their respective weaknesses and strengths so that later they can grow up loving each other and supporting each other through marriage.

Unfortunately, the society is built up on a “divide and rule” strategy. So men support men and downgrade women; and women are used to downgrade other women in front of men. The end result = women have become the weaker sex and are always downgraded in the society.

Many false narrations have been written on women and are credulously used by many. Many women are haters of women. There are women who constantly criticised other women with their husbands, and male relatives, believing unconsciously that these criticisms will earn them a higher position in the male’s eyes.

By the way, I would like to share a true story which was narrated to me. A woman who considered herself  a good and pious woman and who believed that her husband was the kind of a saint, would narrate to her husband  the bad behaviour of their female neighbour. The neighbour being a woman of loose nature,  would regularly invite all sorts of strangers to her house. The husband listened to the story of her wife with much concern, asking more and more details and the wife would spy on her neighbour in order to report to her own husband. Finally, the intention of the husband was different from hers!!! He decided to pay a visit to the neighbour and you can guess what happened. Different genders, different perspectives!!! 

Nobody is perfect in life. So, if you women, you think that you should criticize other women so that others may find you extraordinary or just a saint, then you are on the wrong tract!!!!

Remember: if a woman is sinning. she is not sinning alone. Now if you say that she makes others sin because of her attitude or her dress style. Remember, good women also fall as preys because men are seducing them. Be aware that many men are committing fitnah by tempting good women to commit immoral acts. This happens at school, at university, at work…even those who stay at home can be tempted through social networks ….so this problem can happen everywhere. There are men who tempt women by sending them private messages and so forth. So do not just blame women.

Many women are good, masha Allah but they do not know their husbands’ vices and what they are up to once they are alone. It is in their nature to defend, to oppose truth because they are too emotional and too fragile towards those they love. However, it is important to understand the objective of our creation. Allah created us for truth not to stand for falsehood. Truth is above falsehood. As believers, women should not depend on their husbands but on Allah. I repeat, women must depend solely on Allah as is explained in the Qur’an.

Of course, we are just generalising a few cases. There are good women as well as good men and that’s very fine, Al hamdulillah. We pray that more and more people realise that they should live according to the tenets of morality and become better individuals. We pray that women – I mean those who are used to do it – stop discussing and debating over women all the time and that they try to solve their problems in private. It is better to pray for all believing men and believing women, for their salvation and protection from the fitnah of the dajjal.

 

Wishing all of you the best

 

Ammaara

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Dua in moment of heavy torment and oppression

Dua in moment of heavy torment and oppression

How to make your dua the most effective?

Remember dua can be made alone but Allah always listens to the dua of a group of sincere people. So, it is important from time to time to unite and to make collective duas, in shaa Allah.

How to proceed?

1. Have a Ghusl

2. Do wudu

3. Pray two rakaat of tawbah [repentance]

4. Send darood upon the prophet [pbuh]

5. read surah Al Fatiha

6. Read surah 94

7. Read surah 105

8. The first ten verses of Surah Al Fath

Important note:

Many sincere believers today are oppressed by their enemies who threaten them with terror, jinns, sorceries etc. This dua is very powerful when you cannot cope with your ennemies and they have decided to make your life impossible…Remember that Allah always listens to the pleas of the oppressed and we should never lose patience in making dua. Allah will never let down an oppressed person, so persevere with patience and constant supplication with hope and certainty until Allah releases you from your torment and give you victory upon your ennemies.

Brothers and Sisters: The greatest support you can give to those who are oppressed  involves you raising your hands towards the heavens and making rigorous supplication to Allah Most High with the following Dua:

A POWERFUL DUA FOR THE BELIEVERS

Yaa Allah! You have revealed The Book, You control the clouds and dominate their path …

You defeat the armies of Your enemies…

Yaa Allah, All Mighty are You, All Powerful are You,

Yaa Allah, defeat your enemies, defeat them all, All our enemies and yours!

Yaa Allah! Scatter their aim, shake the earth beneath their feet, strike fear into their hearts and thunder into their lands and properties, assign the winds and your soldiers on them to finish them as you’ve done before to your enemies Allahuma Ameen. [remember surah Al fil]

Yaa Allah! Cripple their limbs and blind their sight, mute them, and send upon them epidemics and calamities and don’t cure them no more if they persist in their crimes and refuse to submit upon You, Yaa Allah. Allahumma Ameen.

Yaa Allah! Disperse their gatherings and shatter their unity and their leaders & troops labors; Make their condition severe amongst themselves, and make their plots turn against them – show the worlds the signs of your Power, and make their destruction a lesson for those who do not learn lessons Allahumma Ameen.

Yaa Allah! Hasten their destruction, and make their wealth a bounty for the Muslims Allahumma Ameen.

Yaa Allah! Aid our Mujahideen brothers in Palestine, Lebanon, Egypt, India, Pakistan, Philippine, Indonesia, and every where Allahumma Ameen. Guide them towards what is right. Teach them the right way to attack the ennemies. Give them full support and create unity among them always. And disperse the kaafirun. Put hatred in their hearts among themselves so that they become weaker and weaker each day.

O Allah, you are are Lord, so listen to our supplications and to not frustrate us by delaying our demands. Do not abandon us at the hands of the kaafir, the unjust and the oppressors. Do not allow others to have the upper hand upon us. O Allah, you are the Generous, the Merciful, the Wise, help us to stand straight in all circumstances. Free us from the slavery of our own minds and do not leave us alone with our own selves but accompany us each moment of our lives so that we may feel peace of heart and mind.

Yaa Allah, you are the most powerful, the Almighty. Defend us against the attacks of the devils and the taghout. O Allah, save our ummah from the treachery of the dajjal’s plan. O Allah smooth our way and give us solace and tranquility so that we may have enough time to pursue in loving You more, in strengthening our acts of worship.

 

Yaa Allah! Unify the ranks of the mujahideens, and gather them on the word of truth Allahumma Ameen.

Yaa Allah! Make accurate the aim of their weapons; strengthen their determination and make them steadfast, and bestow upon them tranquillity Allahumma Ameen. Yaa Allah, put their hearts at peace and guide them to that which is all-good Allahumma Ameen.

Yaa Allah! Give them authority in Your Glorified Name, and give glory to them with your infinite armies in the heavens and the earth Allahumma Ameen.

Allahumma you are The King of kings & the king of all Worlds! May the Peace and Blessings of Allah be upon the Messenger of Allah and upon all his followers and companions

Allahumma Ameen. Allahumma Ameen Allahumma Ameen.

Send darood upon the prophet [pbuh]

REMEMBER: Allah does not need any permission to do or undo a situation. Be firm upon your dua and hope, hope and hope until Allah sends down His Mercy upon you.

 

How to get rid from homosexuality? The best solution ever

Don’t lose hope! Fear Allah (S.W.T), ask Him for help earnestly, never give up, and do something to get rid of even the idea of homosexuality. Try to avoid all of the circumstances that trigger your homosexual feelings:

don’t get alone with an attractive man

always be in the company of others

don’t get involved in deep / personal discussions with any person that you may think will trigger your homosexual feeling.

Stay away from any other people who have similar feelings. 

Don’t even think of such an idea of this subject.

keep yourself busy in different useful thing.

stay away of anything that remind you of homosexuality.

Keep a POSITIVE thinking in your mind

 Keep saying to yourself that you can do something about it.

Don’t ever say I can’t. Remember with every step you are taking toward getting rid of this habit you are getting help and reward from Allah (S.W.T) and you are annoying the accursed shaytan.

Also, you should focus on this wordly life. It will soon end. This life is nothing but a test: and homosexuality is your test…

Each human being has got a test. We need to strive in order to gain victory over our it. So do not despair!!! Helps come from Allah alone. So turn to Him in prayer and sincere submission.

Then, read the Quran. Use earphones. They are more powerful in tuning your brain and heart on La illaha illallah. Let the verses flow into your ears while you relax. You will soon give me the good news of your success. When fear of God [taqwa] and consciousness seize you, you automatically become a different person….This is the secret of success insha Allah.

May Almighty Allah grant you success

Your sister Ammaara

A short video that will make you understand insha Allah

SUPER FUNNY! Can men wear earrings and gold? – Q&A – Sh.Hussain Yee


Your soul needs salah [daily prayers]

Dear Readers,

Today I want to talk to you about a serious matter

How many times, have you heard about prayers? So many times, I am sure

Many people, not only Muslim men and women, but the whole humanity, do not pray

They believe that this is a waste of time because prayers mean subordination, superstition, something that men have invented in order to enslave others, that the church has invented in order to control the masses…..

Or there are others who do not deny the fact that prayer is obligatory but are indifferent to any form of worship. They think :”I don’t have enough time” or they say: “When I will grow old, i’ll do it because old people have nothing to do so they can pray instead of staying idle”…….there are so many reasons that we give to ourselves and this is so sad!!!

Religion has been marred by human hands and human minds. it has been corrupted yet if you make an effort to research, you will surely realize that God exists. Yes, He does!! He is the Creator of all and He knows specifically your needs

Your body has been created with many elements. That is why you  need oxygen to breathe because your body has ether. You need water because your body contains a high percentage of water. Likewise, inside your body, there is a SOUL.

EVERY HUMAN BEING HAS A SOUL. WHEN THIS SOUL LEAVES YOUR BODY, YOU DIE FROM THIS MATERIAL WORLD AND THE SOUL IS DETACHED FROM YOUR PHYSICAL BODY BUT REMEMBER ONE THING THE SOUL DOES NOT DIE.

My point here is to make you understand. if you have a physical body, you need to feed it but  your soul is made of spirit, so how do you feed it?

O please don’t tell me that your soul does not need food. It does not require material food but it requires SPIRITUAL FOOD BECAUSE THE SOUL IS SPIRITUAL

I hope by reading this, it is making sense to your mind because the mind understands things through the intellect. [in our next topic we can discuss the food for the mind]

Right now, I am saying that your soul needs food this is why the Creator of the whole universe has prescribed FOOD FOR YOUR SOUL and this is SALAH [obligatory prayers]

If you do not feed your soul, you will feel depressed, lethargic, confused and very often you don’t even realize that you are starving your soul. You are doing a great injustice to your SOUL because you are taking care of your stomach and you are neglecting your soul. The reason for this is clear, when your body is hungry, you are used to feed it. Often we feed it too much that we fall sick. When the heart aches because somebody has hurt you and left you, then you cry because you feel the pain. So, you try to feed your heart with loving people and having people who can love you. But what about the soul? The soul is hidden. it does not manifest itself in the same way as does the heart or the stomach. So you have the tendency to neglect it because it does not manifest itself in the same way. You think it does not require food and this is where you are wrong

In fact, all your problems come from this ignorance. You need to feed your soul with spiritual food. As I mentioned above, your soul is spiritual. So, salah with awareness and consciousness brings solace to the soul. The soul must be nourished five times daily. like you feed your stomach three times daily with a complete meal, so your soul needs five times to be nourised.

 

Uthman bin ‘Affan (May Allah be pleased with him) reported:
I heard the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) saying: “One who performs ‘Isha’ prayer in congregation, is as if he has performed Salat for half of the night. And one who performs the Fajr prayer in congregation, is as if he has performed Salat the whole night.”

[Muslim]
reference : Book 9, Hadith 81

Putting your head to the ground five times daily is a unique opportunity given to those whom Allah loves – Ammaara Uddeen 

Raising your hands up and asking the Creator for your needs, is a sign of humility. Only God the proprietor of the Worlds possess all the treasures and wealth while you are needful of Him. So, everyday, raise your hands in supplication and ask

 

I wish you all a happy life

May you take care of your soul by nourishing it five times daily

Author: Ammaara Uddeen

The spiritual bondage v/s New Muslims fashion

Are you slave of fashion and new trends that you are not aware of ? Are you bonded by this

stereotype material life that you are no more aware that you have fallen in it? When you lose your spirituality, you become the slave of shaytan. He commands you by his voice [music, songs], by his words [the contrary of the Quran, false concepts], by his actions [fashion, media, social networks] to follow him. Once you are used to listen to him, you become addicted by his influence and you start acting like shaytan but are no more aware of it. Very often, if you are a good Muslim, he will only make you confused and will little by little bring you to commit mountains of small sins until you get far and far away from Allah and your life becomes a nightmare.

 

Among the dangers that we are facing, is how are you using our intellect!!!

Many Muslims are just followers of ‘likes’ and ‘shares’

They are unable to analyse a publication because they are prompted by their desires, their passions, their lusts, their ignorance, their fanaticism….

Hence, they are Muslims with a name. They are partly Muslims and partly exposed to the love of modernism and it destructive codes of law.

However, that does not mean you cannot be modern. Take the right side of modernity and leave the wrong side of it.

In order to be able to do this, you need to : READ THE QUR’AN WITH UNDERSTANDING

One of today’s fashion is taking pictures of the dead

Our dead, our family, our children, our parents. Yet, you know too well that it is haram to show a man, a stranger the face of a woman and vice versa.

Taking the picture of a dead – new Muslim fashion!!!!!
Subhan Allah. Even the dead are not getting respite nowadays. There is no more respect. Muslims are drowning in the quest of showing off. Indeed, People are more interested in showing off, putting pictures of Face Book in order to get likes but they do not realise what they are doing. It brings tears to my heart to see how Muslims have lost their conscience and they are publishing a moment where the angel has taken the soul of a man and it is between him and Allah. Please honour your Muslim brothers and sisters as his face should not be shown by anybody. And repent to Allah for your ignorance for surely, shaytan whispers evil things to people and tell them it is good

ARE YOU A SLAVE OF SHAYTAN????

Check your own house. Check your daily activities. Check your preferences. Check your posts. See how many pictures you are showing. Do you have the right to show them/ do you have the right to take the pictures of others without their permission and to spread them of social networks just to get ‘likes’ – Ohhhhhhh, beware brothers and sisters of Riya. Do you know what is Riya? it is small shirk? Showing off!!! Beware your small sins become a moutain of sins!!!! and you will be drowned in your sins!!!! And at times you may wonder, what’s wrong with my life, I am good, I am doing salah five times a day, but shaytan is playing tricks with you my friends. Shaytan is telling you to post people’s pictures, to take the private lives of people and bring them to the open!!!

ASK YOURSELF : What is spiritual about you?

It’s high time to leave aside those desires and passions that are enslaving you. Wake up and break the chains of slavery.

Are you spiritually ready? Is your family? Are you adequately protecting your loved ones?

 

Remember, it is easy to fall and difficult to stand up again!!!

So easy it is to fall, and difficult to to stand up after the fall…..

IF  NOT, RETURN TO AT – TAWAB – ALLAH AND DO TAWBAH

I want to know the purpose of my life!!!!

How many people are born in countries, cities or even families, where it is practically difficult to gain comprehensive knowledge about this life…

Education at school, at the universities, and to add it worst, many medias, work hard to give us a version of life that is NOT TRUE.

The school syllabus is often obsolete, or simply out of reality.Poor innocent boys and girls are still learning that their ancestors are APES. But when we tell them they are therefore monkeys, they become upset. Because NO HUMAN BEING IS PROUD TO BE A MONKEY? AND NO HUMAN BEING IS PROUD TO WORSHIP A MONKEY, RIGHT?

Why? simply because human beings are far more developed and superior than a monkey.We cannot pray something that is inferior to us. No. THIS IS SIMPLY IRRELEVANT TO OUR MINDS.

The result of all these insubordinations to the Creator of the World: Allah, has resulted in many social, religious, economic, political, cultural problems around the world.

It is high time we leave aside our own opinions which are the fruit of our wild minds. it is time to tame our minds through submission, determination, love, understanding, reasoning…

What is your purpose in life? i am sure, all of you will agree. We are all looking for PEACE.

But why are you looking further? ISLAM STANDS FOR PEACE.

If the media at large, wanted to live happily, they would not have misinformed you about ISLAM….

The hidden agenda is to lead all young people astray….to lead them in agony…..

Just listen to this young girl’s video and tell me what you think insha Allah

 

 

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An important conversation with the prophet of islam

An important conversation with the prophet of islam

A traveller once came to the Masjid to see Prophet Muhammad [S.A.W.]. After greeting the prophet, he was asked where he was from. The traveller replied that he came from very far just to get a few questions answered. Following is the dialogue between the traveler and the Prophet [SAW]
Traveller : I do not want (punishments) to be written in my account.
Prophet : Behave well with your parents
Traveller : I want to be known amongst people as an intelligent person.
Prophet : Fear Allah always.
Traveller : I want to be counted amongst Allah’s favorites.
Prophet : Recite Qur’an every morning and evening.
Traveller : I want my heart to always be enlightened.
Prophet : Never forget death.
Traveller : I never want to be away from Allah’s blessing.
Prophet : Always treat your fellow creatures well.
Traveller : I never want to be harmed by my enemies.
Prophet : Always have faith in Allah only.
Traveller : I never want to be humiliated.
Prophet : Be careful of your actions.
Traveller : I wish to live long.
Prophet : Always do Goodness towards blood Relations
Traveller : I want my sustenance to increase.
Prophet : Always be in wudu [ablution]
Traveller : I wish to stay free of adhab in the grave.
Prophet : Always wear pure [clean] clothes.
Traveller : I never want to be burnt in hell.
Prophet : Control your eyes and tongue.
Traveller : How do I get my sins forgiven?
Prophet : Always ask forgiveness from Allah with a lot of humility.
Traveller : I want people to respect me always.
Prophet : Never extend your hands of need at people.
Traveller : I want to always be honoured.
Prophet : Never humiliate or put down anyone.
Traveller : I don’t want to be squeezed in the grave
Prophet : Recite Surat Al Mulk often.
Traveller : I want my wealth to increase.
Prophet : Recite surat Al Waqiah (The Inevitable chapter 56) every night.
Traveller : I want to be safe and at peace on the Day of Judgment.
Prophet : Do zikr (Praises) of Allah from dusk to night.
Traveller : I want to be in full attention & concentration during prayers.
Prophet : Always do wudhoo with concentration and attention

t was narrated from Abu Hurayrah that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said:

It was narrated from Abu Hurayrah that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said:

“A person may speak a word that pleases Allaah and not pay any attention to it, but Allaah raises him many degrees in status thereby. And a person may speak a word that angers Allaah and not pay any attention to it, and… He may throw him into Hell because of it.” Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 6113.

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